After getting only 11 hours of sleep in the past two days I started the morning thinking, “Wow, I am not going to be looking so great at brunch today.” How was I going to tame my frizzy hair, fix all the flaws reflected in the mirror, and find something decent to wear?
I managed to pull myself together, and had a nice time with relatives I hadn’t seen in awhile, but in my mind, they were probably judging me too.
As I was leaving, Mom pulled me aside and said, ”You looked beautiful when you came in today. Your hair looks lovely with all the different shades of blond in it. You’re a beautiful girl!” It was said with such sincerity, I felt tears stinging my eyes. I had not been feeling anything close to beautiful, and it took me a minute to even process the words.
I realized then how unkind I can be to myself. Being shocked to hear a compliment is not a good thing. I’m going to work on that.
~ Debra

