Perspective

After getting only 11 hours of sleep in the past two days I started the morning thinking, “Wow, I am not going to be looking so great at brunch today.” How was I going to tame my frizzy hair, fix all the flaws reflected in the mirror, and find something decent to wear?

I managed to pull myself together, and had a nice time with relatives I hadn’t seen in awhile, but in my mind, they were probably judging me too.

As I was leaving, Mom pulled me aside and said, ”You looked beautiful when you came in today. Your hair looks lovely with all the different shades of blond in it. You’re a beautiful girl!” It was said with such sincerity, I felt tears stinging my eyes. I had not been feeling anything close to beautiful, and it took me a minute to even process the words.

I realized then how unkind I can be to myself. Being shocked to hear a compliment is not a good thing. I’m going to work on that.

~ Debra

TP and TLC

I’ve been dealing with self isolation due to the coronavirus pretty well up until now, but today I’m restless and out of sorts. I’m not being productive. I’m bored with TV, I can’t concentrate enough to read, and if I look at the same posts on Instagram one more time I might lose the few brain cells I have left.

I’m angry about the people who aren’t following the rules; hoarding, not wearing masks, not thinking about others. Good stories definitely outweigh the bad though; people risking their lives to help others, keeping restaurants and stores open, sharing supplies, donating and making masks, organizing fundraisers and food drives.

I miss people. And I’m wondering, like everyone else, when I”ll be able to see my family and friends again. I’m hoping that everyone stays safe, and that everyone takes good care of themselves and others.

I’m trying to. However, my sole purpose the last few days has been obsessively tracking a shipment of toilet paper that I ordered for my parents and me. I cheered when the order went through! (It hasn’t moved from processing yet, so I will believe it when it actually arrives on their doorstep.)

Today might not feel so great. But tomorrow will be better. And I will get up, start my day refreshed and renewed, and only track my tp order once . . . or maybe twice . . . in the morning and at night . . . and possibly during my lunch break.

Take care, all.

— Debra

Noteworthy.

Along with a handwritten letter (a rare find these days), I’ve always appreciated a good note. Whether strictly informational, or filled with emotion, notes are usually welcome and often thoughtful. A simple thing to show you care.

When we were old enough to be home alone after school, Mom would often greet us with a note. “Went to the grocery store. Be back soon! Love, Mom” or “Running errands. Snacks in fridge. (smiley face) Mom.” We loved those little notes. And although we wouldn’t have admitted it in our teen years, we were secretly disappointed on the few occasions we came home to an empty, noteless, house. (So very sad.)

To carry on this “noteworthy” tradition (pun intended), and invite notes from all who enter, I hung a chalkboard in my side entryway.

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Mom stopped by the other day while I was at work and left this behind:

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How nice is that to come home to? A simple smiley face and a nod to the season. No words necessary.

Notes are friendly. Notes are fun. Notes have the power to brighten someone’s day.

So . . . leave a little note . . . chalk up some cheer . . . scribble up a smile for those you hold dear . . . (It could even rhyme!)

Ok. Do you think I’ve rambled on long enough about notes?

Duly noted.